Sometimes you have to talk about why you can’t talk about something. There’s an interesting analogy for this: You can drive your car anywhere. But you should always listen to the engine.
Is something rattling or knocking quietly? Are the brakes squeaking? When you notice it, you’d better get the car to the workshop before it breaks down completely.
That’s why you should quickly address when something’s heading in the wrong direction. Before it gets too big and too strong.
Share what you see, hear and feel. How it affects you. Then be quiet and listen.
Your car is now in the workshop and everything will be fine.
Originally published auf Deutsch at reinergaertner.de (est. 1997, older than Google). AI helped translate this. I helped introduce the errors.